Our Need For Love

2008-05-17T22:21:00Z

It is our basic human nature to love and be loved. Without it our spirit deteriorates and life becomes mundane, just one day passing on into another. When orphan babies are not touched, cuddled and loved they die. With that in mind, is it so wrong for men or women to seek out the company of a stranger, such as an escort or someone they just met? I say no. And maybe some of these people already have partners, but don't seem to connect on a sexual level. They love each other, but don't experience the passion like some others do or maybe they once had with someone else in their past. Is it wrong to want to experience those feelings, at least once in a while, during our short lives? We, as intelligent humans, manage to find a way to fulfill those basic needs, even though society tells us this is wrong. Maybe we're married or in a steady relationship. Maybe our religion dictates it's views on such matters that stick with us all our lives. This tends to interfere with and confuse our consciousness because on the one hand, we need to experience sex and love. On the other hand, our particular upbringing tells us we cannot do this because there are rules. And if these rules are not followed, there could be consequences in the afterlife. I say, "Live For Today". If you have a strong desire to feel or experience something (as long as it brings no harm to others), then DO IT! If you have a sexual fantasy you've been dying to induldge in, then what are you waiting for? Or maybe you'd just like to talk to someone about it and sort of feel it out first. You can talk with me or someone close to you, if you prefer.

Well, I'd like to hear some of your thoughts on this subject. Call me or post a comment. Have a great day. ~~ Kathleen ~~

Understanding Ourselves

Our Need For Love